Stress Relief
Does Work get you Stressed?
Man has evolved over many centuries. In the Stone Age, life threatening dangers
presented themselves on a daily basis and two responses were important for survival. Hunting ferocious beasts one
moment, being quiet with a partner or taking part in a bloody tribal battle the next. Primitive man responded in
either of two ways if he was going to survive. Running or fighting. If they 'froze' or 'could not cope' they were
history.
In modern 21 st century life none of these responses are
appropriate. Instead, civilisation has brought with it new and complex demands to replace the life threatening
ones. Because our autonomic system cannot differentiate between the various sources of arousal, being stuck in
a 21st century traffic jam or being told that the project you have just completed is not good enough produces
exactly the same bodily responses as being chased by a woolly mammoth or sabre tooth tiger. Our primitive
response mechanism still works in exactly the same way whilst the responses themselves have become less and
less appropriate.
Fighting your employer or your partner when you disagree is probably going to get
you into more trouble than running away, but neither response is suitable or sensible. If we cannot respond to
challenges in the way we were designed or programmed to do, some conflict is bound to result. It is called Stress.
Piers Day will help you out of the Stress Trap experienced by individuals and business groups and to re-establish
'survival' skills for the 21st century. Piers will show you how to deal with the niggling things and the large
things in the same way which will enable you to move your energy and motivation to where you want it rather than
fighting your way through your day.
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